Sunday, February 24, 2013

6 Months Old!

This past Friday Giovanni turned 6 months old. I really can't believe how time flies. He is really starting to get big!

At his 6 month appointment on Friday he weighed 14lbs. 6oz (4th percentile) and was 25.25 inches long (5th percentile). He may be small, but he is a very happy little guy...not to mention strong. He is still in size 3-6 months and they are actually a little big on him. Just to think...I didn't really buy any newborn clothes for when he was born as I thought he would be too big to fit into them. Boy was I wrong!

Giovanni is doing great from a developmental perspective. He is rolling all over the place, can sit up unassisted (although he topples over after a while), can walk forwards, backwards, and turn in his walker, and has just started to try and pull himself to a sitting position when on his side. He is doing a lot of "talking" and even is communicating by fake coughing which is absolutely hysterical. When he wakes up in the morning, he coughs until my husband and I get him up.

I know it is kind of trivial, but I really enjoy shopping for him and picking out his clothes each day. I am not a fan of leaving your baby in pjs all day or just throwing them in onesies and cotton pants. I get most of his clothes from Gymboree and recently discovered Janie and Jack. Giovanni is one fasionable little dude!

  This is from Valentines Day.

It is so hard to believe that 6 months have already passed by since this little miracle entered my life. Sometimes I think back to all of the tears that I cried wanting nothing more than to be a mom, thinking that it would never happen. It is amazing what a little time, patience, persistence, and faith does! I love being a mom!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Tic TAC Toe

I can't believe that it has been almost 2 weeks since my last post! So much has happened over these past couple of weeks...I am utterly exhausted!

Back on the 1st I had my phone consultation with Dr. Arthur Haney from the University of Chicago regarding a Transabdominal Cerclage (TAC). I was very nervous going into this as I wasn't sure if I was emotionally ready to have this conversation. The minute I started talking with Dr. Haney I could tell that him and I would "mesh" well and his tone and demeanor instantly put me at ease. Our conversation started with a review of my history followed by a complete anatomy lesson that covered the entire female reproductive system. Even though I am already somewhat of an expert in this area, I learned a few new things. He told me that based on my history, both the pregnancy complications and the cancer diagnosis, that I am a perfect candidate for a TAC and that my insurance would cover the costs (cue:: happy dance). 

Before our conversation, I prepared a list of questions that I had for him so that I didn't forget anything. Here is what I learned about the TAC:

  1. It will in no way interfere with fertility treatments or testing (HSG, SHG, Hysteroscopy, D&C, etc.).
  2. It is permanent. Once it is placed, it can stay in forever and is good for multiple pregnancies.   
  3. While the success rate for a vaginal cerclage is only 75% (and that includes all live births, even the 24 weekers that have countless complications and spend months in the ICU) the success rate for the TAC is 99%...and this is based on full term births only!
  4. Once the TAC is in place, if I become pregnant, it will be virtually impossible for my cervix to open prematurely therefore bed rest will not be needed.
  5. A c-section would be required...and if you remember what my natural birth entailed, this is a welcomed "complication". 
  6. I would fly out on a Sunday, have the surgery on a Monday, stay in the hospital 1-2 nights, and then fly home the day after discharge. Since the incision is basically a c-section incision, I would be required to stay home and not drive for two weeks.  
After talking with my husband about everything, we have decided to move forward with the surgery. My surgery is scheduled for June 3rd. They wanted to do it in April but I really wanted to give myself some time to be back to normal, not to mention, back to work. I am happy and scared at the same time!

Giovanni also had his appointment with the Gastroenterologist at the medical center, and as a matter of fact, it was today. I am happy to report that he has finally broken the 14lb. mark! While he is still in the 3rd percentile, he is sticking to his growth curve and that is all that I can ask for. To make a long story short, the Gastroenterologist was quite pleased with Giovanni. While he said that we have had some complications, he said that he is pretty sure that it would be an easy fix. We know from the upper GI study that he has severely delayed esophageal emptying and there isn't much that can be done about this. For the reflux he will be staying on the Prevacid, but instead of breaking the dose up into two doses, he is having us give it to him all at once. The other thing that he said could be causing the slow weight gain and vomiting is an inability to digest milk protein. Since I refuse to stop breastfeeding, I need to go dairy free. I have also agreed to keep him on one bottle of formula a day as well. The doctor switched the formula to Alimentum. He gets one 5oz. bottle of this at night mixed with 1 and 1/4 tbsp. of rice cereal. Giovanni had his first bottle of this tonight and he took it like a champ. We go back for a follow up in one month so hopefully this new "diet" will help. Despite being such a small dude, he is becoming such a big boy!